Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Growing up with Carter

As we wind down the day and I rock Carter to sleep, I thought I would give our family and the readers a "Carter update."

Houston, we have a tooth! And we chew everything! We have been trying out different baby foods and I'm finding that a good rule of thumb is… if it's orange, he eats it. (seems appropriate coming from a huge UT fan family) Carrots, sweet potatoes and peaches… we LOVE! Green beans...love those too! Squash, that's another story. Squash seems to bring about the gag reflex and makes him mad!

Carter is also sitting up on his own for a little bit, a minute or so. We also recently purchased a high chair and it makes life much easier! For some reason, being in the high chair makes Carter think he's a part of the group or conversation. It puts him on our level.

Carter gets 6 month pictures on the fourth of march (and don't worry, I'll share!!). He turns 6 months on the 5th and gets 6 month shots on the 6th. I can't believe that it has been almost half of a year.

Momma momma seems to be our word of choice, but DADDY gets all of the kisses......not sure how that works!

I guess that's about all that is new with buster! Cherishing every moment. (even the late nights and early mornings because YES we still have them!)

Wednesday, February 15, 2012

The prayer of a worrier

I am blogging this evening with a clouded vision.

This afternoon, as I sat in the recliner holding my sleeping boy, I was running every stressful situation through my head and worrying my blood pressure through the roof I'm sure. As I tried to solve every problem in my head, while trying not to hyperventilate or cry hysterically, I thought "I should blog about this." Shortly after thinking this, my sleepy headed little one wiggled a little to find a new spot and I realized something.

"Who are you?" Who am I to question God's timing? Who am I to "solve" my problems without going to Him? Who am I to stress and worry as if to say "You won't take care of it, so I'll get it."

So I write this prayer tonight in order to clear my vision, de-stress my mind and refresh my soul. I write this to recognize my blessings and to be grateful for them. Maybe someone out there reading this needs to say this prayer too.


Heavenly Father, Daddy,
Forgive me for not coming to You first. Forgive me for underestimating or doubting your abilities. You are the almighty and all knowing. You take care of those who follow you. Thank you for the blessings you pour out on my family daily. Thank you for my loving husband who treats his family the way you want. Thank you for my beautiful son who is healthy and such a joy. Thank you for my husband's job and ability to work. I know that life can be difficult. I ask that you continue to protect and bless us. Teach us Your ways. Help us to be patient and understanding. Uncloud my vision. Help me to see your plan. Help me to be content. Forgive me when I fail and help me to realize that you are always there to pick me up.

Amen.

Saturday, February 11, 2012

My God will meet all your needs

As we were getting ready for bed last night, Josh reminded me that, after yesterday, my blog is no longer up to date. A lot of things have happened this week, heck, this month. From weddings to showers, new air units to expensive car issues, from work schedules to drama, doctors to birthdays..... It's too much to mention or give details about if you get my drift!

That all leads me to this blog post. (and I'll TRY not to be long winded) I'm not going to update you on our "dramas", because I know you don't care and have no clue what my dramas are. I am simply going to touch on a much BIGGER picture and one that has been on my mind for a while.

I believe we all go through "defining" moments in our lives. Whether they are deaths, births, struggles, moves, they all have a tendency to form our lives, to learn from, and, in my opinion, show one's true character. (and everyone wants to have a "pretty" character)

I've mentioned this before, but patience is something that I have always struggled with. Having control is another one. Unfortunately for me, many times those two go hand in hand. This month, Josh and I have faced many moments like this. No patience and no control. Many times, I've thought to myself "There's only so much that I can take." Whether I'm talking about a relationship, a job, or heck, just owning a house and being an adult.

I am proud to say that Josh and I have handled ourselves in ways that I feel was best and one that we can answer to. Now, we must be patient and give God control. I had posted Proverbs 3:5-6 the other day. (I'm not going to list it, I'm going to make you look it up!) We have talked and have always believed that we should do what we feel is right and what we can answer to God for. He will take care of us and he will take care of you.

So here's my point:
Focus on your blessings. We are tremendously blessed. All of us. If you do this and try to have your heart in the right place, your true character will be one that you can be proud of. (or at least look back on without tremendous regret)

Here's what you might not want to hear but need to hear:
Life is hard. Everyone has different things they struggle with. Not trying to step on toes because I do it to, but quit complaining. Quit whining. You don't like to hear others do it. Be patient. Know that there is a plan. You can't change others. Only yourselves. Help others. Learn from others. Money, jobs, birthdays, events, they are or can be wonderful, but they are not your God. And I assure you, you will answer to how you use these things and how you prioritize. Be grateful. Learn from the past and others and let God make your paths straight. In the end, that's all that matters.

That is all friends. Hopefully I have kept your attention up until now and hopefully you don't hate me. Life has thrown some curve balls over the past month, but I am grateful for it. I am blessed and my God meets all my needs (and yours too I assure you)

Have a blessed weekend!

(And yes, there have been changes to the name and look of the blog. You aren't losing your mind!)

Friday, February 10, 2012

Up to date!

Yes, I know that I haven't blogged in far too long. My apologies! So let me catch you up in a quick, yet proficient way!

Carter now weighs a whopping 16 pounds and 7 ounces. Not only do I know this because of our shots/wellness check up last week, but I know it because of the 2 visits to the doctor we made this week. The culprit? Bronchiolitis and an ear infection with possible RSV. Then on Tuesday, Josh took me to the clinic where I was told I had a severe sinus infection and was given a z-pac. So, hopefully, we are on the up and up!!

Other new things this week: Carter is saying "momma momma momma" and YES I think he realizes what he's saying! He is also talking....a lot! I wonder who he gets that from! Our 3 month new tv went out this week, so needless to say, we weren't happy about that. Josh is now working longer hours at work for the month of February, and none of us are too happy about that either.

So now that I've caught you up VERY quickly.... Let's just shoot the breeze! Some other (not so important things) we're enjoying/loving/doing this week....
It's BACK...that's right, I'm talking about The Voice! If you haven't seen it, you should! It's wonderful. Monday nights at 7 on NBC. Things Carter loves? Our phones. And he throws a hissy fit if he doesn't get it. He also loves sweet potatoes. Squash, not so much!

Now, you've been brought up to date. (For the most part) Hopefully I can update you sooner next time!